Is it my fault?

Was reading a friend's blog today & it made me realise something.

I've been really out of touch with my spore friends lately. i mean, its not that we don't meet up to chat or watch movies or dinners etc, cuz we do, esp now that i'm back here for hols. what i mean is more than that. more than just eating & talking shallow stuff.

Its more that we haven't had the chance to really sit down & have heart-to-heart chats, or even just long phone conversations with each other anymore. lately, its become ever more apparent to me that somehow, things have changed. yes, some for the better... but some for the worse. of cuz, it takes 2 to tango.. so i do have to pay some responsibility.. & it dint help that i was the first to go overseas..

Is this all a part of growing up? hmmm that we're now busy with new lives, new unis, new friends? or have i just not made enough effort to catch up with my sporean friends?

*to those of you whom i am talking abt (you know who u are).. i'm sorry if my leaving spore has made it hard for us to contact each other like we used to.. & sorry if i haven't made the effort to listen to ur problems & helped you with anything.. but i DO care ok! so tell me if u want to, i'm all ears. I don't promise that i can help in everything, cuz only God can do that.. but well if i can do anything to make you feel better, i will.